Each person must have a wonderful dream about a wedding . Everyone will want to live a happy and lasting marriage until death separates . No one is getting married wish to divorce after 1-2 days .
But does that make a lasting marriage ? There are a lot of people say that marriage should be based on love, because that will be the foundation of domestic relations , because it has the strength of feeling that can not be seen and measured how much.
They say , the origin of mutual understanding and match each other , the marriage will last a long time . Everyone's decision to marry is sometimes based on two things, love or suitable . But what is more important to build a happy marriage ? Let's look at both sides.
Character Matches
As friends, you will be more comfortable with your partner. You two can discuss and talk about a lot of things like close friends. But bad , sometimes people will compromise their own heart and feelings so decided to get married even though no love.
This decision is usually urged by several things , such as family demands , the age limit and so forth . In the end , he underwent an unhappy marriage .
Love feeling
If there is a feeling of love , relationship feels more alive , you will not be bored and will feel more satisfied with life. Worse , there are many who married solely for love without considering other things as an adult . Finally, as many people say , " want to eat love ? Life not only of love . " and the wedding also did not last long .
What you need
If you could say , these two things are actually equally important and interrelated . Without the feeling of love toward one another , there are many things that make you want to maintain a relationship , because there is no sense of binding to one another . Similarly, the suitability of character , a wedding would be difficult to build if you two never got along . You two will be difficult to separate if you can understand each other .
That is why , sometimes you have to think carefully before deciding to get married . Ask your heart , consider a lot of things , do you really could live with him in marriage .
